Counselling, Psychotherapy and Mindfulness  
that creates lasting freedom. 
 
Tel: 01453 763463 
Mob: 07903 667251 
 
 
Is it time for you to come home to yourself? 
 
 
Are you willing to believe in you?  
To commit to you? 
 
 
Your purpose is to be you and to fully allow you to be present all the time 
 
 
Start living the life that reflects  
your magnificence. 
 
 
what If we were no longer in judgement, would there be a problem? 

 
 
Counselling in Stroud, Gloucestershire  
 
 

Working with me will allow you to to become more aware of the unhelpful thought patterns that can trigger and perpetuate stress, anxiety and low moods. With that awareness comes choice and an improved ability to respond skilfully to life’s hurdles. Being mindful, we let go of struggle and simply allow things to be as they are 
 
Alys is one of the most experienced Counsellors in Stroud, Providing Counselling and psychotherapy both face to face and by Phone/Skype. 
 
Counselling is an umbrella term for talking therapies, where you are provided with a safe and supportive environment to explore any challenges you may be going through. 
 
As a Counsellor my approach is integrative. This means that I draw on a wide range of therapeutic methods, so that I can work in the most effective way with you to achieve the outcome you desire. I offer, bespoke tailored sessions to the individual person, drawing on a variety of tools and resources, gathered over 20 years of working and training in the field of Personal Transformation and Emotional health. 
 
I provide a safe, confidential space to talk, explore, heal and grow. I am here to help you to understand your areas of difficulty, gain relief from present symptoms and develop emotional resilience to cope better in the future. 
 
Science tells us our thoughts influence our molecules and can therefore create disease in our bodies, in the same way as our emotions affect our health and wellbeing. We all know of the Mind-body connection, therefore the improvements in psychological well being translates into physical vitality. 
 
As human beings, we have within ourselves all the resources we need to improve our situation. Sometimes our resources are under-developed or unused, or perhaps we don’t even know they exist. My role is to help and support you find those resources and together we can discover what needs to happen, for you to move forward. 
 
 
 
 
Counselling research has shown that the most important variable in a successful course of therapy is the quality of the relationship between the client and therapist. It is important that you feel that you can connect with your therapist, regardless of their theoretical approach. The feedback that i have often got is that the way I connect with Clients is one of my strengths and has brought great healing to the people I work with. 
 
Working with a trained Counsellor offers an opportunity to grow and change in ways you might not be able to achieve on your own or with friends and family. The personal growth that may take place in therapy can free you from the limitations of old patterns. 
 
Due to the way that my own unresolved childhood trauma was ‘leaking’ out in my life, creating challenges for me in relationships, I was forced to address the repressed emotional pain that came with these experiences, and change the behavioral patterns that were created due to them. I have learned not only to address these wounds and patterns, but how to transform these painful memories, core beliefs and emotions on a very deep and fundamental level. The challenging times that have arisen in my life, I have come to see as a huge ‘gift’ to me, as it enabled me to set upon a deep personal exploration of healing and understanding first hand of how our thoughts, beliefs, behavioral patterns and emotions affect our health and well-being.  
 
 
I combine and integrate a wide range of different counselling approaches, including: 

Humanistic Principles –  

The idea that all human beings are capable and resourceful people; able to make their own decisions and that each of us is completely unique and cannot be understood by a theory alone. This approach means that your therapist will be open and honest with you and not hide behind a professional mask or a set of hard to understand theories. 

Psychodynamic approach – 

The idea that we are influenced by our earlier experiences in life and that these in some way help to shape our personalities and outlook on life. 
 
 

Transactional Analysis – 

The idea that within each of us exists three key characteristics: the Parent, The Adult and The Child. Noticing how these are activated and ‘played out’ enables us to develop greater freedom and healthy control in our lives and to develop more productive relationships with others. 

Cognitive approach – 

The idea that we all see and experience things differently and truly help a person to deal with an issue, we need to understand the meaning that they give to a particular situation and ways that this meaning is both helpful and unhelpful. This then enables us to make any necessary changes. 

Inner Child Work - 

Inner child is a concept used in popular psychology and Analytical psychology to denote the childlike aspect of a person's psyche, especially when viewed as an independent entity. Frequently, the term is used to address subjective childhood experiences and the remaining effects of one's childhood.  
The inner child also refers to all of the emotional memory and experiences stored in the brain from earliest memory; The part of the psyche believed to retain feelings as they were experienced in childhood, which often ‘leaks’ out in our lives, causing us difficulties in our everyday life and our relationships. 
 
 

Gestalt Therapy  

Gestalt therapy is a type of therapy used to deepen our awareness of ourselves and our feelings in a less intellectual manner than the more traditional forms of therapy. "Gestalt" means the whole; it implies wholeness. In any experience or interaction there are feelings in the foreground and in the background. 
 
The idea in Gestalt therapy is that all of us have had to repress or suppress aspects of ourselves because they were not accepted or supported. It is these aspects of ourselves or our feelings that end up in the background and can become unfinished business. 
 
Gestalt therapy can help shed light on unfinished business by helping us to focus our awareness on our feelings (or lack of feelings) moment to moment. Once we recognize our unfinished business, (i.e. uncomfortable feelings, stuck patterns of behaviour, or ways in which we perceive ourselves and others that are based on our experiences as opposed to reality), we are better equipped to understand ourselves and to choose whether we want to make changes or not. 

Transpersonal Psychotherapy -  

offers a positive, life-enriching approach to the issues people face. It can help clients to discover and understand more about themselves and their deeper nature, so they can make choices that are more true to themselves. 
The transpersonal approach is a relatively new area of development in the field of psychotherapy, while drawing on centuries of theory and wisdom from both Eastern and Western traditions. Put simply, it offers a positive, creative and life-enriching attitude to the problem people encounter. rather than pushing away our difficulties, it encourages us to welcome the challenges we face. The area of difficulty itself is seen as an opportunity to grow and discover more about our deeper self. 
So the goal in transpersonal psychotherapy is not to just alleviate suffering, but to use this opportunity to bring about integration of different aspects of ourselves, including physical, emotional, mental and spiritual. This is achieved through an openness and acceptance of the client's experience, and can include working creatively with dreams, images, art and other mediums. 

Matrix Reimprinting and EFT (Energy Psychology)-  

EFT and Matrix Reimprinting can help you clear the emotions around past traumas, that may be lowering your emotional threshold and weakening your immune system. When we experience a trauma, a part of us splits off and dissociates. Often we can’t remember what has happened, while on another level we are reliving the traumatic event over and over again in our subconscious mind. Matrix reimprinting enables you to access these split off parts of ourselves, clear the trauma that they are holding, thus change the relationship to the life trauma. This technique is tremendously therapeutic. It obviously doesn’t change the past, but it changes your relationship to it completely. It changes the pictures in your mind and energy field, and ultimately the way you relate to those pictures. 

Mindfulness Counselling- 

enables you to explore the difficulties you are facing in life through the lens of mindfulness. Mindfulness counselling involves cultivating present moment awareness of both your internal environment, such as our thoughts, emotions and body sensations, as well as your external environment such as the world around you and your relationships with others. Mindfulness counselling cultivates your ability to live more in the present moment instead of ruminating on past memories or projecting into the future, both of which can evoke strong emotional charges. It enables you to develop trust, openness and acceptance of yourself. Mindfulness counselling offers the methods for psychological balance, inner transformation and growth as a person. 
 
 
 
Psychotherapy and Counselling help you gain greater insight and understanding into your thoughts, feelings and actions, this process enables you to have greater freedom to make the choices you want in life.  
 
I will listen without being judgemental or biased, providing a safe space for you to explore any issues and feelings which may be difficult to discuss with others. 
 
By gently exploring your present experience you can gain a greater awareness of who you are and what you need. Psychotherapy and Counselling can help make 
 
new connections that can lead to a greater understanding of your past which allows you to move forward into a better future. Through this supportive relationship, 
 
habitual ways you may experience yourself can be gradually explored. This process leads to a greater freedom and range of possibilities in your life and in your 
 
relationships. 
 
 
I can offer you a bespoke tailor made session unique for your needs. Whether that is face to face in my Stroud Consultancy, or over the phone or by skype, anywhere in the world. 
 
I am accredited and registered by the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and work within their Ethical Framework. I undergo regular clinical supervision with a qualified, experienced Supervisor. 
 
When you are ready, I can help you remember the person you truly are, in a place of joy, peace and freedom you may have forgotten. As you listen to your inner guidance and align with your truth of who you are, you begin to move through your life with growing joy, purpose and sense of fulfilment. 
 
 
Face to Face Counselling in Stroud. Skype Counselling is offered worldwide. 
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